Friday, March 03, 2023

The Meaning of Life

 Life's Enigma

Hope taught strong lessons that inspired me. 
They were essential and meaningful  
Whatever they were, they will be 
Making this land nice and wonderful.

Ideas come and go in my life
They are good and bad and are the worst 
We need to understand a strife
What was written must be enforced.

We need a notebook and a pen
To write what we are going to do
As chores are from every now and then
Paving longevity with a glow.

There is sunlight in our gloomy days
Lighting our moments with gladness
And rain falls in our land, seas, and bays
Giving the earth joy and not sadness.

 
 



Saturday, February 25, 2023

The Essentials

Be Aware of These: Some friendly tips.

1. Credit Cards 
     Always pay in full on time.

2. Don't drink in bars
     Just drink at home. It's safe and out of danger 

3. Phones - don't be tempted to spend on  a new phone; only use it for family and for free

4. Spending on clothing. Money doesn't last forever. Use your clothes and repeat. Never buy
   new fashion. Stay with the everyday uses. Black pants when you frequent the CR

5. Never buy a new car. Buy used with less mileage, or by owner and demo.

6. Gym membership. Just walking, jogging, or exercising at home with cleaning, etc...

7. Cancel subscription, cable TV, etc... Just use the computer, cell phones on messenger
     It's free to call out-of-state and foreign calls.                                           

8. Eat at a restaurant once in a while or with visitors. Order to go. Cheaper to cook and healthy.
    Always have handy: sea salt, soy sauce sugar ( white or brown) garlic, onions, potatoes, carrots,
    olive oil, and canola oil. More vegetables: okra, bittermelon (ampalaya), spinach, broccoli, bockchoy,         (pechay) cabbage, tomato, kangkong, camote leaves, tugabang, lemongrass, malunggay (moringa),          papaya. eggplant, bean, mushroom, and especially from the backyard garden for longevity.

9.No Gambling. Drink socially on special occasions

10. No smoking/ vaping. No drugs. No tatoo.

12. Cultivate the habit of reading and vlogging. The computer is handy for writing your story in Prose and Poetry. You can do it. The Computer can readily welcome you. Life is short. Enjoy it! Don't worry!

EAT TO LIVE. GO FOR MODERATION. GO FOR THE HEALTH OF THE BODY, MIND, AND SOUL. GOD OF LOVE OFFERS THESE FOR FREE: GRACE, MERCY, AND BLESSINGS.
By the way, the phone rings. I'll answer it - " A moment, please." In life GUYS, the only thing we own-  the MOMENT. Thank you, Everyone. Have a nice day. 

Tuesday, February 21, 2023

Breaking the Unknown

Interior Suffering  (Fr. Peter Fernandes, sfx )

" Living in the unknown is a painful existence. Christmas breaks forth in the unknown
for all to behold the ultimate truth." 

" One of human nature's greatest sufferings is the kind within the soul. It is called
Interior Suffering. It is difficult because although we can express it to a friend, 
we can never express it on the level of conciseness."

"Physical pain can be measured by degrees and machines, but Interior Suffering is
experienced only by the soul and is known only to God."


The New Year

 Deception of Numbers

"Don't be deceived by a change in numbers. It is just a motion.
But let the motion change your heart and mind to perceive the beauty of God's creation
to love and be loved. "  ( Fr. Peter Fernandes, sfx. 


Sunday, February 12, 2023

Wednesday, February 08, 2023

The Dollar Notebook

On Intention

The power of intention involves, staying on the active side of Infinite Possibilities.

George Bernard Shaw, who was still creating into his 90's, has been quoted as
saying, "You see things as they are and you say, Why? 
But I dream things that never were, and I say, Why not?

In our nightly eight o'clock prayer of almost an hour of the Society of the Beloved  Disciple,
we include the intention for the Holy Father, the Pope with one Our Father, one Hail Mary,
and one Glory Be. 

On that nightly devotion, I silently added the intention of my two sons to loving
and forgiving each other. It bears fruit.

Saturday, February 04, 2023

Greg's Notes|

 

From A Silent Generation...
Part I

Come to think of it, my dear friends
Philippines - it's Juan Dela Cruz
Uncle Sam, it's America
From Spain, it's Christianity's Cross
U.S. - Education, cinema

The Filipinos were fast learners
Of the living past and modern times
Myriads aspire to be top leaders
Of the country's sunnier climes.

Thanks to the Torch of Education
Making the learners fast and furious
Gearing to the route of rebellion
And the shortest way to be famous.

 A foreign-born idea emerged
A partnership: too good to be true
A writer and U.P. breed appeared
Wreaking havoc and the greatest woe.

Their ideas spread like wildfire
Penetrating the hinterlands
Sporting a brand-new attire
And they're welcome with open arms.

Their mission was admirable
To the school, the church, and family 
Their victims were the vulnerable
And they seemed to be very friendly.

The government was in grave turmoil
Corruptions were in every bureau
And dirt is all over the soil
Courage and strength: a way to go.

With faith, he rode his motorbike;
As a mayor to clean his city
From the evils, he doesn't like
He just wants them to go away. 

His unique plan was a success
Lesson learned as a prosecutor
To the top post, he must confess
Would be a sign from the Creator.

With less cash and followers, he ran
As a candidate for president
On corruption and drug as he can
The voters heard the message he sent.

Silent Generation   (Part II)

Duterte's life was a rollercoaster
Though an apple of his mother's eye
High school life was a  time of transfer
The fun, study, more of try and try. 

Finally, he finished his law course
But did not march on the graduation
And eventually was a good source
On his practice of law profession.

(Greg Intas Alcala Caponong Trabanca)





Wednesday, January 11, 2023

Education

 Up From Slavery.

Booker T Washington ( 1856 - 1915) was a national leader for the betterment of African Americans in the  post- Reconstruction.

He advocated for economic and industrial improvement of Blacks while accommodating Whites on voting rights and social equality. This approach, however, died with Washington, and its success before 1915 was largely due to Washington's adept method of tailoring his speaking and writing to suit the race of his audience. 

In his book, Up from Slavery, Washington traces his journey from slave to educator on his later
success as a man of action in his community and the nation.

Monday, January 09, 2023

The Modern Times and the Living Past

 Love

"Love is a many splendid-thing
It's an April rose that only grows 
in the early spring..." 

And because of God's love that "He gave 
His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth
in Him should not perish but have everlasting life."

Song

So goes the song and a writer writing
a "Song of Bernadette on the miracle of
the Lady of Lourdes. He was never converted
to Catholicism.

" Full many a flower of purest ray serene 
The dark unfathomed cave of ocean bare
Full many a flower is born to blush unseen
And waste its sweetness on the desert air.
-(An Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard)

I should write prose and poetry just for the
sake of expression of the mind from the heart.
A Filipino writer said: America is in the heart.
yet out of the stomach, the mouth speaks.

The BC and AD generations, the Silent generation, 
the Baby Boomer, the Generation X, and the Millenials. 
There are always changes but only God. And Grace, Mercy,
and Blessings never change despite the many changes
on Earth.

Change

Grace is for us sinners even if we don't deserve it. Mercy is for
us sinners even if we deserve it, and Blessings are for both. The reason why
the spiritual, the priest, pastor, deacon, and all of us always say in our 
own special way - God bless you!. 
 
The Ponderable

Despite the Grace shown in our world, humanity has the option.
The world is in turmoil, in topsy-turvy. But because of God's profound love, 
He gave us immeasurable divine mercy through His humble creature made manifest
through the first non-Roman occupancy of the Holy See, the world is now in a deluge 
of the Divine Mercy.  






Friday, December 09, 2022

To a Couple

 Strong as a Molave

There was a man who one day I met
A charismatic guy who can sell
And his tales I could never forget
For in me they really rang a bell.

From the once-large province of Davao
He matured in a big Vic Lumber
Drove a truck and not a carabao
A handsome guy and a great lover.

He crisscrossed Zamboanga del Norte
As lumber was highly in demand
Yet lovely ladies were his forte
While age-old trees abound in the land.

He found somebody to love and trust
From among the molders of the youth
And for a partner, she was a must
So his truck took the less bumpy route. 

Like a Molave, he's firm and strong
To bring her to the altar of love
And he knelt that nothing will go wrong
A message to the great One above.

He poised his vision to the urban
For a valued opportunity
As a worker of the sea and land
He is a man of diversity.

The air trip to the U.S.-Midwest
And his wife was beautiful and bright;
Hugs and kisses and shook hands with guest
That homesickness now was out of sight.

It was time to plan a legacy:
Business and an organization.
The right time called for an urgency
Davao  U.S.A. was in fruition.

The president and founder survived
The grueling test of dire circumstance
His momentous time has not arrived
"Besame Mucho" - he sang; they danced.

Penned for: Ely S. Labja & Edit R. Darcera Labja- lovely couple & best friend
of Greg Intas Caponong Trabanca & Eva Rueles Caermare Trabanca

Ely S. Labja - Founder and 1st President of Davao U.S.A of the Midwest.
Ely sang this song, his favorite, in a Karaoke Eatery on lovely weekend nights.
"Besame Mucho" ( Kiss Me a Lot), a bolero song written in 1940 by
Mexican songwriter Consuelo Velasquez.






Wednesday, December 07, 2022

Induction

 The Making of a Leader

Emerged from a noble profession
Came a humble person at last
"Just be your best," was his confession;
"Defined the future from your past."

I met him at the Phil embassy
Of a meeting among the Pinoys
Indeed it was a necessity
On that forum, each has a voice.

A friendly pedestrian guy he is
Amidst the streams of the middle class
To be humble he tried his best
Honesty is what people trust.

Real Estate: the route for the wise
As he once loves plowing and planting
His hopes spring as he sees the sunrise
That the land's treasure would be lasting.

In his quest he found America;
A force, eternal: Caritas-Love
While there's a group from North Zamboanga
Where there is God, service, and a job.

He tried his best to be generous
To serve more whatever the cost
To toil, to seek, to find what was lost;
There are thorns and perfume in a rose.

A poem for Donaldo Pactol, on the induction as president of ZAMNAI.
The momentous celebration: Gala, Induction, and Christmas Party.

"I expect to pass through this world but once, any good things therefore
that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any fellow creature. let me
do it now, let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again."
(Stephen Grellet-1773-1855), 
(By Greg Intas Alcala CaponongTrabanca, former past president of ZAMNAI)

Thursday, November 24, 2022

A Thanksgiving

Reminiscence

 From the Silent Generation
Surviving the Second World War
The Baby Boomers' innovation
And the strong Millenial doors ajar.

The ocean of mercy opened up
God's incarnation in Mary's womb
And the blessings would never stop
Through the years and glad we are not doomed.

Embedded in humanity's soul
Is Christ's personal relationship
Must be the essence of life's goal 
For all mankind: our fellowship.

Christmas: season of transformation
Christ's real presence is our concern
Great jubilation for the nation
On this, we must profoundly discern.

Deus fit homo ut homo fieret Deus
(God becomes human so humans must become God.)
Catholics and non-Christians called Him Jesus,
The Saviour and we are immensely glad.



Saturday, November 19, 2022

A Dedication

 The Children's  Memories

We remember you our dear mother
As a mother, you love your children
Unassuming but there is power
This is how it's going to begin.

In the Queen City, it started
Love grew, nourished until it blooms
This was not the plan but studied
And as Baby Boomers, it zooms.

Soon  the couple received a token
Four beautiful girls and two bright boys
Of the sun's smile and the joyous rain.
"Remember this is life", said the Voice.

The children's role model was their aunt:
A Florence Nightingale sans hubris;
"Strict discipline on what you must want
Will not lead you to your nemesis."

Dear mother is on a lovely bed;
We pay our last respect and goodbye
But there's a place where we must not  dread
Peace and joy that no one can deny.
=====================================++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

Belen Fortich Caermare 
Husband: Luisito Rueles Caermare
Children: Geraldine, Riza, Christy, Francis,  Antoniette, Rexis.

The bereaved family of Belen Fortich Caermare would like to convey 
their heartfelt gratitude for those who in one way or another had eased 
their sorrows in time of her demise.

Thank you very much!
The Children

(N.B.) Evangeline Rueles Caermare Trabanca is the Aunt, deceased, an LDR nurse.

"Help someone in distress and you lighten your own burden; the very joy of alleviating
the sorrow of another is the lessening of one's own."  (Fulton Sheen.)


Thursday, October 27, 2022

Reflection

One Sky.

From the sunny East to the Midwest
Then traveled to the South and the North
I noticed one sky and went to rest
This is it and so on and so forth.

One sky, one moon, and a guiding star
Glad to know the wonder of this earth
Of the question of peace and of war
Bothered me and also of our birth.

I looked up at the sky one evening
It's the same sky four scores ago
This memory keeps on revolving
That there's one sky and all must know.

I seek wealth but I found wisdom
While faith offered me security
Laughter is a drink of freedom
Patience gave me my immunity. 



Friday, September 30, 2022

On Pre' Nonoy's Blessed Day

 A Dedication ...

Many  happy returns of the day
To my dear friend with the Jaycee
ZAMNAI and would-be members would say
As a founding leader, you should be.

In August nineteen eighty-nine
An idea was mulled over
By a man who felt good and fine
To new immigrants who were sincere.

On relationship and engagement;
The strength and power of unity,
Vision and purpose of assignment;
Activity in society.

Our  group from Zamboanga del Norte
Made a compact for togetherness
Anchored on the sea of honesty
And minding just our own business.

The sea was rough, yet the sky was blue
And we glimpsed our destination
Blessed with grace and mercy so true
Onward we went; no explanation.

( Note:) ZAMNAI is an acronym for Zamboanga del Norte Association in Illinois.
(Beresimo Refugio, a Civil Engineer, was the prime mover and the initial president of 
the then-fledgling association. I was one of the pioneers of that group that made a chapter in the 
wonderful history of ZAMNAI.

Friend

 Our Moment is the Only We Have 
From ZAMNAI with Love

Three scores and fifteen years ago
You basked in the glory of the earth
And that all and sundry may know
That dear life is not all full of mirth.

You were born in Katipunan
A Zamboanga del Norte town;
Dipolog and Cebu drew a plan
Architecture is just around.

Saudi Arabia. America.
Land of rich oil. Land of the free.
La vida: dulce y amarga.
And Dodong cannot disagree.

There is a time for everything.
Time to laugh and a time to cry,
Time to lead and a time to sing,
Time to be born and a time to die.

A hero said, "To die is to rest."
And Dodong left a legacy.
Leader, he is: one of the best
Of great ZAMNAI with ecstasy.

God is good to shower us with grace
And follow up with His mercy
The charity we must embrace;
A blessing for eternity.

After all, words are said and done
We shall pursue eternal life
And the hard-earned riches are gone;
Only the moment is our stripe.

An elegy is written for you
Dominador T. Santos, Jr.
Rest in peace. Lives just come and go!
You live the sole version of who you are.

(N.B.) Life is a mystery. It is short and fleeting. We must do our best version of it as we have at the Moment. On Sept. 25, we have a phone talk. I wished him the best of luck. And what I heard later he's out of luck. 

I first met Dominador T. Santos, Jr. (Dodong) years ago when he left the hot desert of Saudi Arabia to seek a cooler place and landed in the Windy City of Chicago.  Friendship blossomed as he was a likable fellow. He came from Katipunan, Zamboanga del Norte where my High School Biology teacher came from. Then Dodong became one of the presidents of ZAMNAI, whose founder and first president was his high school classmate, Beresimo "Nonoy" Refugio. Then the arrival of HUDYAKA, in Chicago. This became the annual ZAMNAI celebration, the brainchild of Zambo del Norte's former governor Rolando Yebes.

Dominador "Dodong" Santos, Jr. gained leadership prowess as a vice mayor of Katipunan, Zamboanga del Norte, through his involvement as a town planner and a project manager for a commercial complex, and his employment in Saudi Arabia.

I wrote this elegy as a dedication to our friendship. Rest in peace my friend, Dominador T. Santos, Jr.





Thursday, September 22, 2022

The Wonder of Flowers

 Blooming Flowers

Beautiful blooming flowers exude
The most amazing melody
That one can forget the dire feud;
A very handy remedy.

These beautiful blooming flowers   
Charm the secret corner of the soul
They are very refreshing showers
For the distressed, the weary, and all.

These flowers bloom but are unseen
Permeating the earth's corners bare;
In our hearts, we pray in deep serene
The world is asleep but we care.

In our journey, ideas just show
We have to care for and to nourish
It's God's gift that we'll let them grow
So they will bud and not perish.


Friday, September 09, 2022

What's for us...

 The Moment

Our dear moment is all we have
To nurture, cherish and protect
As God is watching us above
And He is waiting to collect.

Enjoy our life on this planet
We have anything we needed
What we pursue is what we get
This life is worth living indeed. 



Wednesday, August 31, 2022

Era of Unity

 Unity

Forget not the power of three.
It is the thing that we must need
'Cause by that there is unity
God. Son. Spirit: eternity.

Three words: grace, mercy, and blessing.
We hear these in the human lip.
It is our prayer as we sing
It is profound we cannot nip.

Things we don't deserve, God gives us.
He spares us for faults we deserve;
Rightfully, He gives us a plus
His blessing for us to preserve.

In my aloneness, I wonder
The nuance of grace in our life
That divine mercy is so near
A blessing in avoiding strife.



Monday, August 22, 2022

Things Essential

 What is/are:

GRACE - is when God gives us good things that we don't deserve.

MERCY - is when He spares us from bad things we deserved.

BLESSINGS - are when He is generous with both. (Grace and Mercy)

Truly, we can never run out of reasons to thank Him.

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A good husband is not a man who is rich or handsome. He is a man who knows the value of a woman
( which are respect, understanding, honesty, and love)
 Likewise, with a good wife. She is not rich or beautiful. She is a woman who knows the value of a man
( which are respect, understanding, honesty, and love)

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Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the  human face ( Victor Hugo)

Train your mind to see the good in everything 

SMILE - a sign of joy.  HUG - a sign of Love. LAUGH - a sign of Happiness.
TEARS - the sign of Hope that things will get better. NEVER GIVE UP!